What is the real difference between PTSD & CPTSD?
PTSD vs. CPTSD: What’s the Difference and Why Does It Matter?
Let’s be real, trauma isn’t a one-size-fits-all experience. And not all trauma responses look the same, either. If you’ve ever wondered why you’re feeling stuck, emotionally flooded, or constantly on edge, it might help to understand the difference between PTSD and CPTSD (Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder). These terms get thrown around a lot, but they’re not interchangeable. Both are valid, both are real, and both deserve compassion and support.
So what is PTSD?
PTSD (Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder) is what most people think of when they hear the word “trauma.” It usually stems from one big, acute, overwhelming event. Think car accident, assault, natural disaster, combat. Something life-shaking that hits you like a freight train. And afterward, your brain is basically trying to keep you safe by staying on high alert… even when the danger has passed.
PTSD symptoms usually fall into four main buckets:
Intrusion – Flashbacks, nightmares, memories that hijack your day and pull you right back into the moment of trauma.
Avoidance – You steer clear of anything that reminds you of what happened, whether that’s a place, a person, or even certain feelings.
Mood + Thinking Changes – You might feel disconnected, numb, or stuck in shame, fear, or hopelessness.
Hyperarousal – You’re jumpy, anxious, keyed up, and can’t quite relax. Sleep might be trash. Focus is hard. You're always scanning for danger.
This kind of trauma is more situational. Think: a home invasion survivor who starts avoiding loud noises or can’t sleep alone. PTSD symptoms usually show up within a few weeks or months of the event.
And then there’s CPTSD.
CPTSD (Complex PTSD) is what happens when the trauma isn’t just one event, it’s repeated. Chronic. Layered. It often shows up in childhood or in relationships where escape wasn’t an option. Think ongoing emotional abuse, neglect, domestic violence, or growing up in a home where safety was never guaranteed. This kind of trauma gets under your skin and starts shaping the way you see yourself and the world.
CPTSD includes everything under the PTSD umbrella plus a few more complex layers:
Emotional Dysregulation – You might feel too much, too fast, or totally numb. Emotions feel like they’re in the driver’s seat.
Negative Self-Concept – That inner voice? Brutal. You might carry deep shame, feel broken, or believe you’re unlovable.
Relationship Struggles – Trust is hard. Intimacy feels unsafe. You might either avoid closeness or desperately crave it. Or both.
Dissociation – Ever feel like you’re watching life happen from outside your body? That’s not you being “weird.” It’s your brain protecting you.
Loss of Meaning – You might feel untethered, disconnected from purpose, faith, or the sense that your life matters.
Key Differences:
Origin Story: PTSD is often from a single, terrifying event. CPTSD comes from repeated, chronic, and often relational trauma.
Symptom Scope: PTSD is more about fear-based survival responses. CPTSD adds in identity wounds, relational scars, and emotional overwhelm.
Developmental Impact: CPTSD usually starts young and messes with how we learn to be human like how we relate, how we trust, how we see ourselves.
Healing Needs: Both need therapy. But, CPTSD healing often takes longer, with a deep focus on safety, relationships, and self-repair.
So… how does therapy actually help?
Here’s where we come in. Therapy is where we untangle the chaos, name what’s happening, and start slowly (and safely) rebuilding your sense of self. Different approaches help with different pieces:
For PTSD, we might use:
CBT – Tackling those negative thoughts and avoidance loops.
EMDR – Helping your brain file traumatic memories so they stop running the show.
Exposure Therapy – Gradually facing your triggers, with support.
IFS – Meeting the different parts of you that are carrying pain and helping them heal.
For CPTSD, we go slower. We build trust. We talk about what safety even is. We challenge the shame scripts. We create a relationship where your nervous system can finally exhale. And to be honest, the relationship we build can be such a huge part of the reparenting and rebuilding process. We might still use EMDR or IFS, but we also focus more on the relational piece of healing, because chronic trauma often comes from broken relationships. So we use a new relationship, like ours, as the foundation to help you feel seen, safe, and whole.
If any of this sounds familiar, I want you to know—you're not "too sensitive," "too much," or "broken beyond repair." Your symptoms make sense. They’re not character flaws; they’re survival responses. And healing is absolutely possible. The first step? Naming it. Owning that something’s not working anymore. That maybe you want—deserve—something better.
If you’re ready to start untangling the mess, We’re here.
Let’s find your way home to yourself.
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