Trauma Therapy in San Diego, CA

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It wasn’t “too much”…it was too much for too long, with no one there to help.

If you’ve been living with chronic anxiety, emotional numbness, shame, or feeling like you’re always “on edge,” it may be more than just stress or depression. For many people, these symptoms are actually signs of Complex PTSD (CPTSD).

What Is Complex PTSD (CPTSD)?

Unlike PTSD, which is usually tied to one major traumatic event, CPTSD develops from ongoing, repeated, or relational trauma over time.

CPTSD is often the result of:

  • Childhood emotional neglect or abuse

  • Growing up in a home with addiction, mental illness, or instability

  • Emotional or physical abuse in relationships

  • Religious, cultural, or systemic oppression

  • Being in situations where you felt trapped, helpless, or constantly unsafe

Instead of one overwhelming event, CPTSD forms when the people or places that were supposed to be safe weren’t—and your nervous system learned to stay in survival mode.

Therapy for CPTSD in San Diego

Common Signs of CPTSD

  • Constant feelings of shame, guilt, or worthlessness

  • Difficulty trusting others or feeling emotionally close

  • Emotional flashbacks (big reactions to small triggers)

  • Feeling numb, disconnected, or like you don’t know who you are

  • Chronic anxiety, depression, or feeling “broken”

  • Perfectionism, people-pleasing, or shutting down in relationships

It’s not that you’re “too sensitive.” These are survival strategies your mind and body created to help you cope.

How Therapy Can Help

CPTSD is treatable. Therapy gives you a space to unlearn survival patterns that no longer serve you and reconnect with your sense of self, safety, and worth.

At our practice, we use:

  • Trauma-informed care to meet you where you are, with no rush or judgment

  • EMDR therapy to help process stuck trauma memories safely and gently

  • Attachment-based therapy to rebuild trust in yourself and others

  • Parts work (Internal Family Systems) to connect with the different “parts” of you, especially the ones that feel scared, angry, or numb

  • Mindfulness and somatic (body-based) work to help regulate your nervous system and feel more at home in your body.

You Don’t Have to Carry This Alone

Healing from CPTSD isn’t about “getting over it”, it’s about coming home to yourself, safely and gently, with a therapist who understands complex trauma.

We’ll move at your pace. You’ll be in control of the process. And we’ll hold space for both the pain and your deep capacity to heal.

Frequently Asked Questions about Trauma Therapy in San Diego and virtually throughout California

  • CPTSD often comes from ongoing experiences rather than one single event. It can develop when you’ve had to stay in survival mode for a long time, especially in relationships or environments that didn’t feel safe. Trauma Therapy in San Diego can help you begin to understand those patterns and gently work toward something different.

  • You might notice things like feeling on edge, shutting down emotionally, struggling with trust, or carrying a deep sense of shame. These aren’t signs that something is wrong with you—they’re signs your nervous system learned how to cope. Trauma Therapy in San Diego gives you space to explore this with support and clarity.

  • Healing from CPTSD isn’t about forcing yourself to “move on.” It’s about slowly unlearning the survival patterns that once protected you and reconnecting with a sense of safety, identity, and self-worth. That’s the heart of Trauma Therapy in San Diego.

  • We start by getting to know you and what you have been carrying. From there, we move at your pace by building tools, creating safety, and gently working through what feels ready. You are always in control of the process.

  • CPTSD therapy often includes approaches like EMDR, attachment based therapy, and parts work. These approaches help you process past experiences, understand your patterns, and feel more grounded in your day to day life.

  • There is no single timeline for healing. CPTSD develops over time, so it makes sense that healing does too. Some people notice shifts early on, while others take a more gradual path. We will move at a pace that feels safe and sustainable for you.

  • No. You do not have to share every detail for therapy to be effective. We focus on helping you feel safe first, and from there we only go where you feel ready to go.

  • Yes. CPTSD often shows up in how we connect with others, like people pleasing, pulling away, or feeling unsafe even in close relationships. Trauma Therapy in San Diego can help you understand these patterns and start building more secure and fulfilling connections.

  • Absolutely. Starting therapy can bring up a mix of emotions like hope, fear, and hesitation. All of that is valid. You will not be pushed into anything before you are ready, and we will take it one step at a time.

  • You do not have to have everything figured out before reaching out. A consultation is a simple way to connect, ask questions, and see if this feels like the right space for you. Trauma Therapy in San Diego can begin with that first step, and you do not have to do it alone.

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